When you are interacting with a girl, especially in the early stages of your relationship, if you are older, popular, related to rich people and handsome people, and you have more than one item, you are particularly likely to meet a girl asking you: "Why don't you have a girlfriend yet?" "Why don't you have a girlfriend yet?" How should you reply at this time?

Girls ask themselves why they can’t find a girlfriend

1. Wrong answers

1. Humorous type

“I am like this Girls think I am not single, so they don’t consider me.”

“Because I like men” (use with caution, if the humor is at the expense of one’s own male image, it is recommended not to use it) )

2. Ridiculing and self-deprecating

"I don’t like people who like me, and I don’t like people who like me." (Many people use it, in addition to showing your current embarrassing emotional situation, but It is of no use)

"Poor, ugly, 1.29 meters tall..." (In addition to giving girls the feeling that you are avoiding her problems and appearing insincere, a small number of girls I think this is humorous)

3. Imaginative type

"What? You want to be my girlfriend Huh?” (Many people use it, but the effect is really not as good as you think. Some people even confess to girls because they think the girl likes them because they ask if they have a girlfriend... . . . )

"Do you want to introduce me to someone?" (You have to rely on yourself to get to know girls, so you should strictly avoid letting others introduce girls, whether you are teasing or serious. That is to say, if your behavior itself is not conducive to attracting girls, then don’t do it)

The above three commonly used coping methods by many boys are for your reference only.

2. Correct answer

The following is my response method, I hope it can inspire you.

1. Domineering and Exposed Type

“Don’t think about it, you have no chance”

“I’m sorry, you’re late”

If you are extremely confident, have relatively good conditions, and can feel that girls are interested in you, then you can try this method.

2. True feelings type

"Sometimes it takes fate to meet the right person." , the tone is a little emotional and a feeling of seeing through the world of mortals.

"Love is about meeting, not finding. If you deliberately look for a girlfriend, it is not love." A sincere statement.

When facing the girl you like, you need to show your truest attitude towards feelings and love.thoughts and deepest feelings.

In the past, when girls approached me, they would automatically classify me as someone with a girlfriend, so sometimes girls would verify their judgment with me and ask me if I have a girlfriend, and then ask Why didn't I find a girlfriend? The answers I use the most are true feelings, because these are my true inner feelings and thoughts. (Please understand that having a woman and having a girlfriend are two different concepts)

In the future, as the relationship with girls deepens, for example, when the relationship progresses to physical intimacy such as hugging or kissing, Knowing that girls have begun to like me, I will also truly express my inner feelings to girls: "It's great to meet you. Do you still remember when we first met and you asked me why I didn't find a girlfriend?"

< p> I was single before, because I didn’t meet my fate; now I have developed a relationship with a girl, and I instinctively feel happy in my heart. Isn’t it great to meet you? Express your feelings for her and the happiness she brings you honestly and kindly. If she likes you, she will be infected and even moved.

Being so honest and kind, you will not let girls doubt your feelings for her, because you are really invested in them Feelings, love is a matter between two people. Whether you love or not, how much you love has nothing to do with others. The girl’s feelings are the most important. And some good gentlemen who appear to be kind but actually often do things that hurt women, what do you think? Like, women don't believe it at all, because your feelings for women are what women feel, not what you say and what you think.