The initial chat with a girl is very important, because the impression you give to the girl at this time will largely determine the success or failure of your pursuit. So what is the best way to chat with a girl at the beginning?
< p style="text-align: center;">1. Opening remarks
When you first start chatting with girls, a good opening can win a higher reply rate.
For example, capture a little cutie alive (the girl’s anonymous name on WeChat is called Little Cutie), you will definitely look good with short hair (girls have long hair now), what about you in 1999, you should be a foodie (Gourmet Food in Moments) There are many photos), and the girl’s appearance looks quite like that of a southern girl (starting with the head portrait).
For example, I was introduced by XXX, and I said hello to you in XXX today. Didn’t I scare you? Do you still remember me? We met once in XXX.
2. Quickly break the ice
After getting a response to the opening remarks, you need to quickly break the barriers between the two parties and quickly become familiar with each other. After all, effective communication cannot occur if both parties are locked into each other. Therefore, breaking the ice is also the first step to opening a woman's heart.
For example, if you look at the updates in your circle of friends, you are also staying at home to fight the epidemic. You are also a person in the world.
For example, why are you no longer in Jinan? Jinan is no longer beautiful without you.
For example, if you are playing with your mobile phone at work, are you not afraid of being discovered by your boss?
3. Provide value
Many brothers chat with the girls they like and feel that they have nothing to talk about, so they keep asking questions and chatting about girls. Doing this will not make girls have any good impressions of you.
What are you doing, have you slept, good morning and good night, are all behaviors of trying to ask for a reply from a woman when you have nothing to say. Providing value can be showing girls interesting things, novel life, and good emotions.
For example, I just came out of the gym and was dragged to a barbecue by my friends. It was another day where I was stuck in the same place. (Show Life)
For example, we are childhood sweethearts and have played together since childhood. Although, you are playing at your house and I am playing at mine. (Provide emotional value)
4. Interaction balance
If your interaction with a girl is very unbalanced, the woman will reply with 1 sentence, and you will reply with 10 sentences, and the woman will reply to you in 2 hours, and you will But he kept replying in seconds. It will make women feel that you are very thirsty and cheap.
For girls you have just met, you must maintain the most basic balance when interacting, and try to control your sense of need. Your reply speed, word count, and enthusiasm should not be too much higher than the girl.
5. Avoid aligningContinuing questions
Continuous questioning is also a way of chatting that girls are very disgusted with. Just like if you were stopped by a salesperson on the street and kept asking you questions, you will be disgusted. After asking questions in the chat, you should express your own views and opinions and continue the topic. Never ask questions continuously.
