Aloof girls naturally give people the impression that they should not be approached by strangers, so if you just fight hard and try your best to show your kindness, it will definitely not work in front of this type of girl. If you want to catch up with her, They still need skills.
Next, let’s learn about 6 techniques to conquer the heart of aloof girls.
1. Treat what a cold girl says rationally
Girls are duplicitous animals. Sometimes they What she says is not what she thinks. This is sometimes especially true for girls who are cold and talkative. For example, if you ask her what kind of boy she likes, she will usually reply with a standard answer like "Just be nice to her." If you believe it and you are just being nice to a girl, you will actually fall into her trash test and be labeled as a "provider" and a "dog licker".
2. Keep a distant distance
When chasing girls, many boys wish to accompany girls every day, chat with girls and ask girls what they are doing. Give girls food and drinks. , I give small gifts to girls on every holiday, but aloof girls like to be alone. Although she may accept all these things, you may only get the good guy card from her in the end.
When chasing an aloof girl, don’t stick to her every day, but keep a distance that’s neither too far nor too close, so that she thinks you’re a boy who can’t figure it out, and then she becomes curious about you. Let her take the initiative to let go of her aloofness and come closer to you, and even fall in love with you.
3. Actively show weakness to girls
No matter how aloof the girl is, they are still girls. Girls are born with the brilliance of motherhood. Most girls are very sympathetic to things that seem pitiful or weak, which is why many girls like kittens and puppies.
When you use your own weaknesses to stimulate the mother of her body, she will focus her attention on you step by step.
Then when you suddenly disappear from her sight one day and she can no longer care for you, she will even miss you and take the initiative to find you.
4. Take the initiative to promote the relationship with girls
Once you have done the above three points and made this aloof girl change her attitude towards you, you must learn to push forward. After all, if you are always concerned about your friends, she will only gradually lose interest in you, so you must take the initiative to upgrade your relationship with a girl when she has a better window, and don't be afraid of failure.
5. Give them the feeling they want
Many times when girls reject a boy, they will say: " "I don't have feelings for you" is such a girlWhat is the feeling of being pregnant? There are many definitions of feeling here. In fact, it is an emotion and a need. Specifically, it means being able to make girls happy and satisfy girls’ inner core needs, such as the need for emotional comfort, security, and satisfaction. Vanity, need for care and attention, etc.
6. Learn to speak sweet words
Whether it is aloof girls or introverted girls, they are all auditory animals, so they all like to hear sweet words, even though they also know Most of these sweet words are just lies, but they just love to hear them and never tire of them. There can be no deception in love or marriage, but white lies are also indispensable, because they will increase romance and interest.
Finally, everyone must understand that if you are chasing a cold girl and want to conquer her heart, how should you treat what she says? You must be rational enough, and when pursuing her, you must neither take the initiative to please nor overly show favor. If you are still friends with her, get along with her as a normal friend to gradually build attraction.
