Many boys are obviously in good condition and good-looking, but why can’t they always pursue girls? Most of the reasons are because they have fallen into the misunderstanding of chasing girls, and they don’t even know it.
Next, let’s take a look at the six major misunderstandings about chasing girls.
The No. 1 misunderstanding of chasing girls is just to contact girls, there is no purpose
Many brothers Chatting with girls is unattractive because they don't understand what the purpose of chatting is. Chatting with girls is not the purpose, chatting with girls is the process of achieving a certain purpose. For example, the purpose of your chat this time is to let girls know who you are, what you are doing, and what your advantages are. Then you should start the chat around this purpose, withdraw after the chat, and talk again next time. This way you won't run out of topics and it won't look like you have nothing to do but chat.
Also, the way you chat is never as important as your personal charm. Others will want to chat with you only if they think you are attractive. Chatting is a way to express your charm. It does not mean that you are unattractive. You can pick up girls just by relying on your chatting skills, but that you are People themselves are charming, and people can understand your charm through chatting.
Myth No. 2 about chasing girls: As long as the girl is with you, you ignore whether the girl likes you or not
< p> Many brothers greet girls and reveal a lot of neediness when chatting with them. They express their love wildly and want girls to know their love. This is because they think this can get girls to be with them. They don’t think whether girls like them or not. It's important to be together. Basically ignoring the point that "a person is likely to be with you only if he likes you".Such misunderstandings lead to the fact that all their actions are to get girls to be with them, asking for results at every turn, asking girls if they like them, wishing that girls would agree immediately after confessing their feelings, and not agreeing if they don’t. She is a scumbag. They make no effort at all to improve themselves so that girls will like them from the bottom of their hearts and want to be with them.
They will even treat being together as if they are talking about business, to persuade girls to be with them, explain the pros and cons, tell a lot of truths and truths, and try to use this kind of negotiation to make girls Be with him.
Misunderstanding No. 3 about chasing girls: You want to chat with girls online to make them happy, and applaud your love directly when you meet them
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Many boys have a mentality of saving trouble and low cost. They hope to learn various chatting skills and be able to chat with girls to the point where they are willing to give them to him. Then they don’t need to invest too much or invite her when they meet. There's no need to give gifts or do a lot of things that he thinks are stupid when he's having dinner or watching a movie.If something bothers you, communicate directly with your body.
I despise boys who have this kind of mentality, but the point today is not to blame them, but even if they have such thoughts, the success rate is very low. Two people will chat with you more familiarly on the Internet only after they have met in real life and feel good about it. A person who has never even met you in person will not chat with you and have sex as soon as you meet. Order something. Unless this person doesn't take sex seriously, or this person is just too stupid to take the bait. However, there are very few.
Misunderstanding No. 4 when chasing girls: Either ignore the outside or ignore the inside
Some brothers think that the reason why I don’t have a girlfriend now is because I don’t have money, or because I’m not handsome enough. , I don’t have any problems at all, it’s just external reasons.
In fact, even if you are rich and handsome, but you don’t know how to get along with girls and make them feel comfortable, you can only attract girls for a while through these glamorous appearances, but you cannot keep a person’s heart for a long time. , when all your shortcomings are exposed and you find that your inside is so unbearable, in sharp contrast with your outside, girls will be even more disappointed and run faster.
There are also some brothers who think that I only need to improve my emotional intelligence, improve my chat skills, and learn to show off, and that is enough. As for me not being good enough in society, I just need to pretend to be good.
We have always disagreed with this approach. Those high-quality Moments we post are because we live that kind of life ourselves, rather than pretending to do so. The reason for posting those Moments is to Tell you to improve your appearance. You have to be a handsome man, and you have to work hard in your career. You have to chat and talk nonsense without any real hard value, and you can only live an unscrupulous life of cheating.
Misunderstanding No. 5 about chasing girls: thinking that if you learn how to flirt with girls, you will be single immediately
Chasing a girl is not just about making feelings, you just need to be able to chat. You also need to consider another layer of issues. Let’s just say that those people who pretend to be at a very high level reveal their true level after chatting for only a few words, and have no topic at all with high-level people.
Misunderstanding No. 6 about chasing girls: Not knowing the right time to confess
Why do articles sometimes ask us to tell a girl that I like her? Isn’t it contradictory?
Many people don’t understand that expressing feelings of need and wanting a girl to be with him immediately, and letting a girl know that he likes and notices him, are two different things.
Let’s take a look at these two sentences:
A very anxious and loveless tone: “XXX I like you so much. I have liked you for a long time. Can you consider me? , give me a chance and we will be together, and I will treat you well. There are not many honest people like me, and I don’t want you to give me a good person card.”
Very sincere and serious.The tone is: "XXX, I have always heard that you are very beautiful. Today I saw that you are indeed well-deserved and very elegant. I like you very much. Are you lucky enough to treat you to a meal?"
Compare it carefully. Do these two sentences give people the same feeling?
The misunderstanding of chasing girls is like a girl saying to you "You are quite rich, please send me a red envelope" and "You are so rich. , I want to learn from you how to get rich." These two sentences give people different feelings.
