Is there anything more embarrassing than liking a girl, deciding to pursue her, and then finding out that she has a boyfriend? If you want to avoid this situation, you must learn to determine whether a girl is single. Let me teach you 4 points on how to judge whether a girl is single.
1. Observe social status
A person’s social status in daily life can A lot of things were exposed.
For example, does she pay attention to keeping a distance when getting along with the opposite sex, her attitude when communicating about emotional issues, etc.
Under normal circumstances, people with a partner are not taboo about talking about emotional issues, and they will also share or complain about their significant other.
When they chat with the opposite sex, they will also deliberately avoid physical contact and keep a certain distance.
What about those who don’t have a partner?
First of all, they generally don’t have too much contact with people who have a partner, because she may not be able to get involved in the topics those friends talk about. On the contrary, you may communicate more with people who are also single.
In addition, most of the topics involved are eating, drinking and having fun, which have nothing to do with emotions anyway.
2. Ask directly
The easiest way to judge whether a girl is single is to ask directly.
But sometimes, it can be awkward to ask directly. Therefore, the key to asking directly is to create a good context.
If you don’t want to reveal your little thoughts too early, you can naturally substitute them in daily chats.
Pretend to ask something, and naturally assume that she has a boyfriend. If not, she will definitely deny it.
For example, if you see her with a boy, you might ask: "Your boyfriend is very handsome."
If not, she would definitely ask: "My boyfriend? Why don't I Do you know this?"
Just deliberately create misunderstandings. Anyway, the person who doesn't know is not guilty. If you just ask, you will know everything.
To draw inferences from one example, you can also substitute it like this:
"What did your boyfriend give you for the holidays two days ago?"
"That new movie that was released yesterday , have you and your boyfriend gone to see it?”
Look, isn’t it natural? Girls generally don’t refuse to answer such questions.
Of course, there is an easier way, and that is to borrow other people’s words.
For example, ask your mutual friends to help you find out the information. This can basically guarantee 100% accuracy.
3. Observe social mediaInformation
For a girl who is addicted to the Internet, you will definitely find some clues by reading and understanding her social media.
For example, her attention and like information.
Those who like the emotional blogger’s guide on how to get out of singles on a certain channel, and often watch couple videos; those who like and comment on Zhihu and Weibo to envy other people’s love must be in a state of longing to get out of singles.
Of course, the closest and most directly visible connection to everyone is WeChat.
A girl is not stupid enough to tell everyone that she is single and available, but it is still possible to throw out a little information from time to time.
For example:
Post on Valentine’s Day: “Isn’t today the third day of the Lunar New Year?”
Post on Double Eleven: “If you have money People are celebrating Double Eleven, people without money are celebrating 11.11.”
When I was bored on the weekend, I posted: “I want to go to XXX, are you with anyone?”
I saw Cupid. While sculpting, I asked: "Where did Cupid's arrow hit?"
...
Of course, this state is obviously suggestive.
Even if some girls don’t specifically say such things, you can still glean a lot of information through her updates.
For example, what is her daily work and life like, and what does she do in her spare time?
Does she often get together with friends? The parties are not fixed. , are there more boys or girls?
Do you spend a lot of time alone, and what do you like to do when you are alone?
Some activities are basically at home, like this kind of door A girl who doesn't want to have a son is 100% single.
4. Do you pay attention to the areas that boys like?
Boys and girls are the same. They like someone. Will definitely pay more attention to what he likes.
Therefore, whether a girl pays attention to these areas that boys like, she can also see her emotional status.
For example, if she knows about games, football, figurines, etc. that ordinary girls are not very interested in, or pays close attention to them, it means that she is likely to already have someone she likes, or even already. Single.
Of course, it is not ruled out that someone is influenced by her ex-boyfriend, so just ask.
"Hey, you also like figures? Or are you buying them for your boyfriend?"
Look, have you used the previous trick again?
< p> Sometimes it may not be possible to completely determine whether the other party is really single based on a certain point, but combined with the points we have mentioned, it is basically no problem.