Many boys repeatedly fail when chasing girls. In fact, it is because they don’t know how to chat and have no chat skills. Reading can make up for this. Here are some books recommended for chasing girls. These are A must-read book for boys who want to catch the girl they like.
1. Shiba Inu Gentleman
A typical case of "people are inferior to dogs": don't say it again You are not good-looking and have a bad figure - in fact, a dog can dress better than you.
This book shows hundreds of outfits. The model is no longer a handsome man or girl but an ordinary Shiba Inu, which shows how "unselective" the combinations listed in the book are.
This can be said to be my introductory book on dressing. It has given me great inspiration in many aspects such as clothing matching, color matching, style matching and so on.
If you are confused about what to wear, you can start with this book. The almighty Taobao will always be able to find the same style of clothes in the book, and wear them for a few months according to the combinations in the book. You will find that your clothing items will skyrocket.
2. The so-called high emotional intelligence means being able to talk
If you have time to study the skills of wooing girls, it is better to immerse yourself in it. Make a serious effort to study these classic works on communication.
Japan’s top communication expert, advertising genius, and copywriting master Keiichi Sasaki teaches you how to communicate with people in life through "7 breakthrough points" and "8 skills" plus a large number of practical cases, and what should you do What techniques can help you achieve the results you want through communication?
Many straight men do not know how to communicate and chat with girls. Rather than imitating some earthy love words in a certain tone, it is better to learn how to express yourself normally and correctly through this book.
How to leave a good impression on others?
It’s very simple. Master the most basic operations and don’t think about showing off fancy things. At least you won’t deduct points for yourself.
3. Cold reading
When I read this book for the first time, my head There is only one thought in it: a genius, simply a genius.
Want to quietly ask the girl you like if she has a boyfriend?
Want to give the other person an invitation that they can’t refuse you? Want to subtly influence the other person’s understanding and opinion of you? ?
How to show yourself to make others admire and appreciate you... This book contains classic cases and practices.
Not only that, cold reading also teaches you how to quickly capture and explore the relationship between the other party’s words during communication.Key information, avoiding the shortcomings of "not understanding the style" and "chaotic understanding of the style" that many straight men have.
Cold reading is an advanced version of communication. Just like what it says on the cover: when you master cold reading, you will master the communication skills to instantly capture and control people's hearts.
4. People of the twelve zodiac signs, you are accurate to the core
After learning communication skills, next We need to master the communication topics. What kind of communication topics are enduring?
The answer is: astrology.
What’s interesting is that many girls are not only very interested in but also convinced of the zodiac signs, but many boys are not even interested in the twelve zodiac signs...
As As a straight man, I especially understand the feeling of collapse when I first came into contact with zodiac signs. The twelve zodiac signs have very different personalities. I couldn't recite the 12 knowledge points in one breath at the time, so how can I remember it now? Living in so many things?
The advantage of this book is that it places the 12 constellations in real-life scenes: queuing, getting drunk, receiving counterfeit money, blind dates, falling out of love, complaining, and many other life scenes. , the differences between the 12 constellations are shown through comics and jokes, making it easier for you to understand and feel intuitively.
Believe me: when you master the 12 zodiac signs, you will have a tried and tested warm-up topic when chatting with girls.
5. Men are from Mars, women are from Venus
A classic that I don’t even know how to describe This book can be called a biblical work in the field of emotions. This book's discussion of the personality differences between men and women is universal even today.
No matter in "pursuit", "love" or "long-term relationship", we will face various problems caused by differences in thinking. We are used to judging each other from our own perspective, but rarely learn to change. Bit of thinking.
This book can open up a whole new world for you, allowing you to seriously understand and think about these issues from the other person's perspective, empathize with others to understand the differences between you, and finally help You find a way to get along with each other that suits each other.
Do you think you don’t understand girls? Read this book, it will help you a lot.
These five books were all books that had a great enlightenment significance for me at the beginning, and I highly recommend them to everyone.
In fact, these five books have covered many skills: fashion and dressing, communication, understanding of zodiac signs, empathy...
The reason why I did not recommend more , because I know that once the recommended books become a list of more than a dozen books, the meaning of recommendation will be lost: you willJust put it in your favorites and never look at it again.
So although these five books are not many, they are all worth buying back and reading them carefully:
Believe me, after reading these, you can communicate with girls and leave them with The ability to make a good impression will directly go to the next level.
