The biggest fear of chasing girls is that you are greedy for other people’s bodies and they treat you as a brother. In order to fundamentally avoid this situation from happening, what I want to teach you today is how to avoid becoming brothers with the girl you like.
1. Change the way you get along with her
First of all, you definitely can’t get along with her the way you treat your buddies. I know that some boys really want to show off their interesting souls. When chatting with girls, they always like to post all kinds of panda heads, and sometimes they even drive a car.
Some boys like girls in the same way as elementary school students. They like to tease girls and say that they will do it next time. Even if they have a bad relationship with her, they will grab the buff from her. Just tell me if you do. You think it's flirting, but in fact it's just "tit-for-tat" in others' eyes. What do you think she doesn't think of you as a brother?
2. Avoid chatting every day
I just want to know how many of you like to go to other girls every day What do you talk about? When chatting, do you talk a lot and densely?
Contents of chatting with girls:
Sharing 10% of life, flirting 30%, and talking heart-to-heart 30%
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The content of your chat with girls:
20% of checking household registration, 30% of making silly emoticons, and 200% of finding someone to talk to if you have nothing to say
Isn’t it like this? No one can compare I understand you better. Only by maintaining a certain distance and a sense of mystery will you maintain your attraction. Don't talk all day long and completely expose yourself to others. The best solution is to hold the pipa and half-cover your face.
3. Declaration of sovereignty as early as possible
If you want a girl to stop treating you as a brother, then you must let her know early that you don’t just want to be friends with her. Give her some psychological pressure. If you want to let her know your affection, you don't have to confess it, but you also need to give some hints.
For example, if a girl says she is going to bed, you can say: Good night, don’t close the windows when you sleep, I will come to you in your dreams~ In this way, she will not be careless in the big room. Be a quiet little white rabbit in front of the gray wolf.
4. Create opportunities for two people to be alone
When two people are alone, they can be very efficient. To bring you closer. I know that girls may feel awkward being alone with you at first, and may reject your invitation. But if we can ask her for a small favor as a friend, it will be much easier, such as:
"My mother has her birthday this weekend, and I want to make a cake for her, but you know I'm a boy, can you please do me a favor and do it with me~"
Once you have the opportunity to be alone, you must seize it and remember to show yourself as a gentleman as much as possibleOn the other hand, take the initiative to pour water for her, pull out a chair, etc., so that she can feel that you are different from usual.
I know that some boys may not know how to attract girls, but the girl they happen to like has a carefree personality and is easily the kind of brother, so you want to be her honey. , and she just wants to be your brother's situation.
Therefore, when we face this kind of girls, we must learn to improve our own attractiveness while maintaining a sense of mystery. , and at the same time, we must let her know our thoughts.
