Many boys don’t understand that confession is the last step to sublimate the relationship when chasing a girl, so they often confess in advance before the relationship is in place. Not only is the confession rejected, but they can’t even become friends. So how do you confess? How can we succeed?

1. Social media interaction

The love of contemporary young people has How many of them started by adding each other as WeChat friends? In addition to chatting, Moments is definitely a great tool.

Isn’t there a saying that if you stop posting on Moments, it must be because you don’t have anyone you like; and you start posting on Moments again, so if you add the WeChat account of the girl you like, You have to make good use of your circle of friends.

Likes and comments are the most basic, but be careful not to do it too frequently, otherwise it will become a like machine.

And the comments must be interactive so that girls are willing to reply. Otherwise, how could she notice you when she has so many friends?

For example:

A girl posted a message: “I bought a new set of Bubble Mart blind boxes, and it turned out that I got the hidden money, awesome!!!"

How can the reply be interactive at this time?

If you also play blind box, you can say: "I I bought a lot of duplicates but didn’t get one, how did you do it?”

If you don’t know these dolls at all, you can also say this: “I heard that blind boxes can bring good luck. ?Is it true?”

Your comment should leave room for the other party to reply. In addition, you should also manage your own circle of friends well.

For those people who say that there are many people added to the Moments that they don’t want to add, so they don’t want to post in the Moments, you can only see them in her Moments. And this way you can see more directly whether she is paying attention to your updates.

2. Take the initiative to chat

People say that when a boy likes someone, he will definitely take the initiative. This is I don't know if boys know this for themselves, but it is definitely an "unspoken rule" in girls' minds.

So, girls can definitely feel your initiative.

I saw some chicken-soup-type lyrical copywriting posted in her circle of friends. She might be in a bad mood. This is a good starting point to comfort the girl when she is in a low mood.

At this time, a girl’s heart is relatively fragile, and your presence will leave a better impression on the other person.

Or someone has posted about something you are good at or interested in. This is the best opportunity, because it can ensure that the topic lasts long and is of high quality.

3. Appropriately ambiguous

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Many people think that those who engage in ambiguity are scumbag men and scumbag women. In fact, in the final analysis, ambiguity is just a means, and how to do it depends on the individual.

Scumbags get criticized for being flirty because they are not sincere. If you really like them, ambiguity will only be a booster for the further development of your relationship.

Then if you don’t want to be regarded as a scumbag, how to control this degree is very important.

First, be absolutely sincere. Whether your attitude towards a relationship is sincere enough, girls can actually feel it.

Whether you just want to flirt or seriously like someone, your micro-expressions and actions will betray you.

If you really like her, the ambiguous promise you made because you want to get closer to her should not be just a casual word. Actions speak louder than a thousand words.

Second, the scale is appropriate. What kind of person is easily regarded as a Neptune or a scumbag? He is just too good at flirting. So you see, sometimes being too good at seducing people is not necessarily a good thing.

For example, if the relationship has not progressed to a certain level, physical contact must be appropriate, especially when you don’t know the girl’s attitude yet.

So how can you control the ambiguity to an appropriate range? It’s very simple:

When you see someone or a car crossing the road, pull her, protect her, and let her Walking inside;

When walking side by side, from time to time, hey, we get close naturally;

It’s quite late to go out for dinner, so we can take a car back together and escort her downstairs.

Third, respect each other. Sometimes I have to say that the charm of language is impressive.

Compared with many greasy tricks to flirt with girls, sometimes ambiguity under the premise of respect can actually make girls like you more deeply.

　For example:

　"It doesn't matter, there are some things you don't want to say so just don't say it, but whenever you want to talk, you can come to me at any time."

　( Get along as friends first, but let her know that you are always there)

4. Express special treatment for her

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I once heard this sentence: If what you give to me is the same as what you give to others, then I don’t want it.

All girls hope that they are unique in the heart of their partner, so when pursuing, you must let her feel that you are different to her and others.

For example, you made her a cake on her birthday. You can just say: This is my first time making a cake for someone else. It’s a bit ugly, don’t dislike it, but don’t worry, it will be better next time!

You see, although it is very natural One thing, but because you did it for her yourself, and it was the first time, your intention was very different.

Don’t underestimate a girl’s sensitivity, she can feel it immediatelyCome out with your thoughts.

So sometimes acting silently is not enough, you have to speak out so that she can know.

Wait until you have done all these things and you have clearly felt that the other person also has a good impression of you and can develop further, then confess your feelings.