If you chat with a girl too frequently, and the girl will reply politely to you at first, but then she becomes impatient and tells you the truth that she doesn’t like chatting, then you will definitely be confused: Is it really possible? Do you like girls to chat with? What is the personality of a girl who doesn’t like chatting? The following is a detailed analysis for you.
The personality of girls who don’t like chatting
If a girl really doesn’t like chatting, she will usually have the following personality:
1. Girls are too lazy to chat
@Anonymous Chat: Personally speaking, I don’t like chatting not because I am introverted or embarrassed to talk, I am just pure Too lazy to chat. What's there to talk about? The two of us were trying hard to find topics and talking about a bunch of incomprehensible things. It was really tiring. And everyone has their own things to do. It’s so cool to play with your phone happily by yourself. Anyway, my friends and I are the kind of people who rarely talk when nothing happens and call us when something happens. There used to be a boy who always talked to me on WeChat. It was obvious that he was trying very hard to find topics to talk about. He was really a good boy, but I was just too lazy to chat and didn’t like chatting. I would be really annoyed if you chat with me every day, and I’m too embarrassed to directly say that I’m so annoyed, so please don’t talk to me. So we can only deal with it coldly.
2. Girls are introverted and don’t like to chat.
@ inversely inserted roses: I am that introverted girl who doesn’t like to chat. When others see me, I will reply, but unless it is for official business or Friends with good relationships generally don't take the initiative to chat with others, and they don't like to send holiday greetings.
I am introverted, but I don’t mean to be autistic or anything like that. I am usually considered a talkative extrovert in everyone’s eyes. I can quickly get close to people if I want to, but I don’t like to maintain things very much. Meaningless social interaction for me.
When you get along with others, you will feel a sense of distance. If you are chased by someone, you will basically reject them. It doesn’t mean that you are aloof and high-minded, but you just don’t want to talk about it, because you think many people’s relationships are quite boring.
I have nothing to say. I can digest any negative emotions that I can’t get over and need guidance from others. On the contrary, most of the time I comfort and enlighten others and give them advice. Others usually come to me to ask me for help or other things. In their free time, they usually indulge in their own hobbies, and no one wants to ask me out.
Of course, although some girls may tell you verbally that they don’t like chatting, it’s not that they don’t like chatting. It depends on who she is chatting with. If she likes you, she will be willing to chat even if she doesn't like chatting. If it's someone she doesn't like or even hates, even if you only chat with her occasionally, she'll be casual or even impatient in replying to you. So, do you understand?
