Emotions are divided into different stages, so our chat should also change with the different stages. Today, the editor will bring you some recommended chat topics for chatting with girls at different stages. If you don’t know what to talk about, , don’t miss it.

1. Ice-breaking period - the first month of getting to know each other

The first month is to get to know each other , the stage of showing yourself.

So we need to talk about some easy and simple topics~

For example, family of origin, interesting childhood stories, learning experiences, to current work content, personal habits, dreams for the future...

Reject "chatting with constant questioning".

When opening a new topic, you can first state your own situation and encourage the other person to talk about his or her experience.

Discover common topics.

Raising pets, playing games, food, traveling, music, reading, NBA...

Extend topics based on interests and hobbies, arouse resonance, and shorten the distance.

Respond positively to the other party.

Encourage the other party to add details: What happened? Then what?

Praise and praise sincerely: It’s so good, so happy, and happy.

Don’t talk about sex, don’t rush to confirm the relationship.

When we first met, avoid talking about "sex". Develop a long-term, stable relationship, rather than being short-term and sending out horny signals that will only attract jerks/girls.

Don’t put yourself into the identity of boyfriend/girlfriend. The relationship is still shallow, and being too enthusiastic and proactive will only make people lose interest.

2. Ambiguity period - the second and third months of getting along

After the first month Understand that the two or three months already have a good impression of each other, which is the stage of promoting the relationship.

Release ambiguous signals.

Beyond the thoughtfulness and care of ordinary friends, you can take the initiative to care about each other, ask about each other's life, and express intimate emotions.

Ask the other person what they have eaten, whether they are working overtime, whether they are tired today, and what their plans are for the weekend.

Develop chat topics and gain in-depth understanding.

In addition to daily topics, you can talk about a certain movie, personal aesthetics, hot news, social topics, and explore your views on something...

To understand more deeply, Communicate each other’s perspectives, ways of thinking, and ways of doing things.

Don’t rush to confirm the relationship and don’t release emotional pressure.

The ambiguous period is very beautiful, with all kinds of small temptations, tacit understanding, enjoy it to the fullest, and don’t rush to confess.

If the other person wants to be with you, he will take the initiative to express his feelings, so keep your mood stable and see what the other person does.

Don’t move eitherNot expressing your loss without moving, blaming the other person, and taking on the identity of boyfriend/girlfriend will make the other person feel stressed.

3. Love period - the first three months of establishing a relationship

After the first three months Work hard, and the relationship will reach its sweetest stage. Add a handful of sugar to make the relationship sweet and oily~

Set small goals for the two of you in the near future.

Is there a delicious restaurant, can you come with me? Or I want to travel to XX, would you like to go with me~

Create beautiful memories for two people, Experience the beauty of love together.

Let’s talk about plans for the future.

You can discuss practical future plans, such as what goals you want to achieve at work in the past three years...

Release positive, lovely and positive energy.

Share more beautiful things every day and spread happiness~

For example, take a short video of the weather with a filter, take pictures of what you are doing and eating, cute little green plants, and little ones on the roadside. Dog...

Don’t talk about the results, don’t restrain the other party.

Since we have only been together for a short period of time, don’t talk about issues like wedding gifts and buying a house. It can easily destroy the beautiful feeling of being in love. Don’t talk about it until you have the intention to get married.

The above are the topics that the editor brings to you today for chatting with girls. Remember to save them, otherwise you won’t know where to look for them.