Many boys, because of their inexperience, never manage to chat with girls for more than a few words, causing the girls to become very indifferent and not want to continue chatting. So how should you chat with a girl to make her more willing to continue chatting?
1. Use declarative sentences instead of questions
For example, if you want to know whether the other person is a student
Don't ask: "Are you a student?"
You can say: "You look like a student."
The other party will answer whether you are or not.
Then you can start talking about the story of your student days.
Of course, that doesn’t mean you can’t ask questions at all, but you should choose someone with whom you want to talk.
For example, when the weekend is approaching, you can ask her about her weekend plans.
The purpose of asking questions is not to dig out information, but to create a sense of familiarity and comfort. Questions are like flowers. Money, every bill you pay means one less bill you can spend later.
No matter what you want, no matter what your values ??are, you need to express it effectively and in a charming way. Don’t be afraid of conflict. What we enjoy is the process of exchanging opinions. Rather than the right or wrong of the point of view itself.
2. Learn to listen
When a girl has negative emotions, listen to her more and don’t talk about yourself Don't try to rationally persuade her or give her some ideas. She just needs a place to vent, and she will have her own ideas.
If she doesn’t want to tell you why she’s in a bad mood, don’t keep asking.
Maybe the girl feels that this matter has nothing to do with you, or she just doesn’t want to talk about it. Be a gentleman and give her some space, she'll appreciate it.
In addition to comforting her, you also need to praise her more. As long as you are a girl, she will be happy if you praise her.
3. Learn to tell stories
Slow down the pace of your story-telling, add more subjective feelings and exaggerated and funny plots, and don’t begrudge "Oh my god hahaha" and "At that time Sentences with strong emotions such as "I'm so excited" can arouse others' interest in chatting with you.
4. Exchange
Don’t obey girls from the beginning, don’t be available at the beginning, don’t meet all her requirements, we can pay for them, but we must In return, let them invest in us.
5. Sense of harmony and collusion
Find more common ground in communication and seize the common ground to chat .
The more you have in commonThe more, the closer the relationship will be, but it does not mean that you will blindly identify with the girl.
6. Leave in a high mood
Don’t wait until the end of the chat before leaving. Cut off the topic and leave when the interest is strong. This way the girl will still want to talk to you and want to continue. chat.
If two people are having a great time chatting, remember to send a signal to the girl when leaving:
"It was really fun chatting with you, you are so funny, but I really have to leave now." Yes, I want to go to that scenic spot with you next time. I’m really looking forward to it. Keep in touch. ”
