Have you ever encountered a situation where a girl doesn’t reply to your messages? What to do at this time? Pay attention, if you shamelessly ask the girl why she doesn’t reply, or wait for her message without doing anything, then the result will definitely be tragedy. So what should you do? In fact, you only need to do four things to get girls to reply to you seriously, and even get girls to take the initiative to chat with you.
What to do if a girl doesn’t reply to your message
First point, don’t ask why
There must be a reason why a girl doesn’t reply to your message. The reason is very simple. It’s because the girl is busy and doesn’t read your message, or she sees it and doesn’t have time to reply to you. If you keep asking why you don’t reply, the girl will just think You are anxious and annoyed, have no self-confidence, like to think randomly, and are as childish as a child.
Speaking of this, you may not have any feelings yet, so let’s think about it for a moment. You have been working for four or five hours in a row, you are exhausted when you turn on your phone, and you find that you have a crush on a girl you like but don’t like very much. , sending you more than a dozen messages in an hour, you will feel very annoyed. When we first met, there is no problem if you take the initiative. At this time, girls are more reserved and embarrassed to take the initiative to contact you, but when girls are obviously resistant or When you express negative emotions, you will know that you have crossed the line.
Second point, don’t use too many routines
In order to pretend that they can chat, many boys will have a lot of pictures and chat routines. When you see interviews on the Internet, they feel quite It's interesting, but after all, it's someone else's stuff, so it's not applicable in many cases and will only make girls feel embarrassed. If the atmosphere becomes awkward at this time, you will definitely panic and wonder if you said the wrong thing, and then start to smooth things over to ease the embarrassment and ask the girl to forgive you. At this time, not only will you lose the initiative, but the girl's impression of you will plummet. In fact, in the process of having an ambiguous chat with a girl, she may not remember it if you are nice to her, but she will definitely remember it if you are not nice to her. As long as you don't make mistakes, it will work even if you are 10,000 times nicer to her than you are to her.
Third point, avoid the topic
When a girl is chatting with you and suddenly doesn’t reply , at this time you only need to reply in a few minutes, ah, are you done? That’s enough. The purpose is to avoid the topic. In fact, it is also the same thing. Try not to make mistakes, because you have not done anything wrong. You don’t do anything wrong at all. You will panic. If a girl doesn’t reply to you, she must be busy. After seeing this, a girl will most likely feel guilty and feel indebted to you. In this way, when a girl chats with you, she will reply to your message first and treat you more. Be proactive and be more accommodating.
The fourth point, the timing of replying again
Don’t think that a girl doesn’t reply to your message because she has some complicated thoughts, or that she is hot or cold to you. In fact, the girl says no.You must have seen it and was about to reply, but you happened to have forgotten something. At this time, you can add a message in a few hours to confirm the situation. It should be noted that you can't send it every few minutes, but at longer intervals. If the girl doesn't reply in the evening, you say you'll catch up the next day. If the girl doesn't reply in the morning, you'll catch up again in the afternoon. You can directly When opening a new topic, don't ask questions about why you didn't reply to me or ignore me. This way, girls will feel pressured and you won't reveal too much neediness.
If the girl still doesn’t reply to your message after you have done the above four points, then you should run away. At this time, the girl Either they are not interested in you, or they treat you as a backup. Don’t be so humble when chasing girls. The humbler you are, the less you need to cherish them. After all, you can never wake up a person who is pretending to sleep.
