Many times, people take the right path because they have no choice. Sometimes we envy other people's happy lives and feel that our fate is bad or that God is unfair. In fact, the quality of our lives can be determined by ourselves. Happy marriages have many similarities, and so do unhappy marriages. Sometimes it's not that people are unfair, but that marriage must be managed well. Marriage is the most indispensable part of happiness, let’s take a look!

1. Mutual understanding

Two people live together and often have children after marriage. When they form a complete family, they are different from the carefree life they had before. Men and women have clear responsibilities. Both men and women have their own responsibilities and difficulties. No one needs to be embarrassed by each other. Two people must understand each other. My wife is still very tired from taking care of the children, and my husband is also very tired from working outside to support the family. They are all working hard for the future. Mutual understanding will resolve many conflicts.

2. Stable income

The poor and cheap couple Pepsi-Cola has no income and no reliable material foundation. If two people are still worrying about basic food after marriage, their relationship will get worse and worse. Few people can be optimistic and strong in pain, and few people can resist temptation in pain. If there is a better choice, why choose to endure pain, why choose to live! A happy marriage must be based on material foundation.

3. Children

Spousal relationships can be sustained by affection and interest. This is the type of marriage maintenance we see the most. If one day the feelings and interests disappear, and the relationship between husband and wife breaks down, the road will be ruined. But after having children, things are different. Whether it is emotion or interest, children always have the strongest connection with two people. Children in happy marriages are often the bond, and regardless of conflicts or interests, children will become soft-hearted.

4. Family support

For the most indispensable thing in a happy marriage, a marriage that is not blessed will be difficult, and an optimistic future will be difficult to maintain. If your marriage is not supported by your family, married life will be very difficult. Some people can go home happily during the holidays, and some can get help from their parents, but when your family opposes your marriage, these will no longer exist. If both parents disagree with the marriage, their marriage will become increasingly difficult. The temporary pressure can be tolerated, but the pressure of life cannot be tolerated.

Some people say that love is more powerful than gold, but only those who are in trouble know the value of love.