A blind date is the first meeting between two people who have never met before, so if a boy doesn’t know how to chat, he can easily be passed by the other party. So what topics should be discussed when chatting with a blind date?

1. Chat with each other

Everyone’s focus is on themselves, and they should guide the other party to share and show themselves through open-ended questions. For example, you can say: "Hey, what do you usually like to do?" The other party will usually do it. Reply to a few interests and hobbies, and then extend it through the information points that the other party replies. It would be better if the other party has the same hobbies as you. If you find a common topic, you don't have to worry about the date being cold.

2. Talk about yourself

It is necessary to show yourself appropriately. Of course, bragging and showing off yourself are taboo. Anyone with a discerning eye can see it at a glance. If you leave a girl with the image of a gentleman, a motivated, and a warm man by showing off yourself, then the possibility of your subsequent blind date is very high.

The best way to show yourself is to tell stories, embed details, values ??and pictures into the stories, and use storytelling to cause emotional fluctuations in the other party. For example, if you talk about food, you can tell the girl about the time when you first learned to cook. It is best to be precise about the time, place, dish name, etc. Only in this way can the story leave a deep impression on the girl.

3. Find topics from the surrounding environment

If you feel that you have exhausted the topic, you can start with what you can see around you. For example, if you see an advertisement or celebrity endorsement outside the window, you can chat with a girl about the advertisement or celebrity; for example, if you see a beggar passing by, you can chat with a girl about your views on beggars, etc.

4. Talk about travel or experiences

Everyone longs for a quick trip, you can talk to Girls talk about where they want to travel, what interesting things happened during the trip, where they plan to travel in the future, etc. This can not only show the other party their broad horizons, but also reflect their hobbies inadvertently. and taste.

5. Appropriate self-deprecation

When chatting with humor, the topic will naturally not be heavy and depressing. Self-deprecation is the highest level of humor. When many boys meet with their blind date, they usually show off their strengths and brag about how successful their career is and how vast the world they have seen. In fact, this will only arouse the disgust of the blind date. .

We might as well laugh at ourselves about our shortcomings appropriately. For example, when you are chatting in silence, you can laugh at yourself and say: "I am so straight. I don't know what to say when I get nervous." In this way, the other party will find you humorous and generous, and be willing to continue dating you.

Of course, if you are chatting on a blind date,During the process, the topics have been exhausted. You can also use keywords to extend. Every sentence we say will provide important keywords. For example, a simple sentence "The weather is good today", weather is the keyword in this sentence. As long as we talk around this "weather", we can construct many topics to talk to each other, and we can naturally avoid heavy and depressing topics.

Another thing to know is that chatting is a process of interaction between two parties. You not only have to capture the other party’s keywords to build a conversation, you also You also need to know how to throw out your own keywords to the other party so that the other party can pick up the conversation when replying.

For example:

Female: "The weather is good today" - keyword weather

Male: "Yes, it rained a few days ago and it made me depressed. It’s bad, maybe God heard that we were dating today, so he made it clear on purpose.”

Female: “Haha, you are really good at talking, and you can also know God’s thoughts.”

Male: "Because it gave me a dream when I slept yesterday, saying that I would meet a charming young lady today."