The girl you like is willing to have an affair with you, and the relationship is relatively close. However, you always maintain the status of "more than friends, not lovers". When you muster up the courage to confess to her, let the girl you like do it. When you were your girlfriend, she said - she doesn't want to fall in love. What does this mean?

What does it mean when a girl says she doesn’t want to fall in love

　1. The meaning of rejection

A girl doesn’t like you and saying she doesn’t want to fall in love is just an excuse to reject you. In fact, she just doesn’t want to fall in love with you because she doesn’t like you (or you fail to satisfy her desire for a boyfriend). various fantasies).

　2. Literal meaning

Girls enjoy the feeling of being single very much - free and unrestrained, and do not want to be fettered by love. When she is single, she can have an affair with whomever she wants. In other words, love is not the current goal for girls.

3. The meaning of hesitation

A girl doesn’t like you enough, so she lacks the ability to be with you. She needs more sense of security before she can accept being with you. Before that, her attitude towards love was hesitant and somewhat evasive.

　4. The meaning of using you as a spare tire

For a girl, you may be just one of her spare tires, and you are still valuable. She does not want to develop a real relationship with you. I don't want to lose your love relationship, so I use this excuse to perfunctory you, leaving you with a trace of fantasy and whetting your appetite.

5. The meaning of fear of injury

Girls may be afraid of being hurt, and then they avoid getting hurt. I rejected all the starts and felt fine by myself. There were no surprises or surprises. If you really like her and you stick to it, she will be moved. This kind of girl just doesn't dare to give her heart to her.

When a girl says she doesn’t want to fall in love, no matter what her reasons are, the most important thing is that she doesn’t love you that much!

This is how you are getting along with her. The "dereliction of duty" in the process did not show your high value, or did not let the girl appreciate you, or your confession was too early...

In any case, the result (the girl said she didn't want to Falling in love) shows that your current position in the girl's heart is not very important, and you still need to make further efforts!